Herein lies the terms and conditions which I {Insert Person’s Named On Birth Certificate} agree to abide by on entering this earth in human form;

Going forwards the term (I, my or similiar pronoun) will refer to the person named above and the term (others, another, person or similar pronoun) refers to any other human being sharing the earth

1. I will value the currency of kindness over money
2. My time is more valuable than my possessions
3. I am the sole owner to the rights of my time (3a)no one else has rights to my time (3b) no one has rights to an explanation for my time not being spent on them
4. Another persons opinion of me is none of my business
5. I shall not pass judgement on another persons actions if they do not directly affect me
6. How someone treats me, is a reflection of them – not me
7. I will trust actions over words, but know that words are powerful
8. I will only engage in competitions with others in a healthy way
9. I accept that my choices are my responsibility and the subsequent consequences are for me to understand, learn from, enjoy or change
10. I accept that if I do not understand a lesson I may have to repeat it 
11. I accept change is guaranteed at any time with no warning and will learn to embrace this
12. I will allow myself time and space to grieve any situation that requires 
13. I will not make permanent decisions based on temporary emotions
14. I accept I am always a work in progress and endeavour to work hard to understand myself above all else
15. I will express my emotions healthily and regularly in order to allow them to flow freely, leaving me with space to focus
16. I will learn from every situation – both positive and negative 
17. I understand happiness is not a goal, it is a motivational signpost 
18. My intuition is never wrong
19. I will speak kindly, tactfully and honestly – always
20. I understand there will be times when someone else’s needs exceed my own and in these times I will put their needs first
21. I will give without expecting
22. I will receive without forgetting
23. I will love without limits (23a) of love has been lacking/missing/unhealthy at any point in my life, I will patiently learn to love myself again
24. I will learn to love in different ways to allow for many forms of relationships.
25. I will continue learning about myself and the interactions I have with others
26. I will set clear boundaries for myself
27. My happiness is my responsibility 
28. Another persons happiness is their responsibility 
29. I will forgive for myself to heal
30. I will be patient with myself at times of healing